How do you deal with the risk that your body lasts longer than your mind?
Serve the young.
A pregnant wife is the start of an outstanding opportunity to de-risk the back end of your life. The skills required to take advantage of this offering are likely to be very different from what you’ve been using so far.
You don’t need to be a father to take advantage of these posts – young spouse, young students, other people’s kids, grandkids, neighbors… the key element is consistent service to others.
Now, in my own case, it wasn’t a desire to “get” future help.
Rather I had a strong desire to “avoid”.
- Avoid another divorce.
- Avoid the pain of future regret.
Still not sure? Listen quietly while grandparents talk about their life decisions.