The best antidote I know for fear is a good laugh that is followed by asking myself, “What’s best for my wife and kids?”
Once we can see our fears, we discover their impact on every decision in our lives – relationships, office politics, athletics, contract bidding, you name it.
Extreme Loss Aversion
Periodically, I’m stalked by a fear of being wiped out.
An antidote is to view the world through a bigger lens. Evaluate bad news with regards to my life – most “bad” news has no impact on me but I transfer remote fears into my home life.
Strike It Big!
The flip side of my risk aversion is a feeling that striking it big would solve all my problems. The voice in my head tells me, “then you won’t have to worry about anything.” However, that’s unlikely. I’ve always had fearful feelings.
The antidote is to point out the obvious:
- we’re in a good position
- keep doing what we’re doing
- inappropriate, and unnecessary, risk is one of the few things that can screw us up
It’s a message that I give to others, and I’m repeating it to myself, here.